Responsibilities of a Collegiate Student-Athlete:

Responsibilities of a Student-Athlete

“I would like to play volleyball in college on a scholarship” - I hear this sentence almost daily. However, I am not sure if perspective athletes understand what they are in for. You must be able to balance a lot of things. It is a lifestyle that you chose. It is never easy and you have to master the time management. 

As a former collegiate Division I Athlete, I would like to clarify some expectations and responsibilities that come with it:

  1. You are getting paid (your tuition/ fees, books, travel, wardrobe, athletic training, tutors, meals, etc). Therefore, this is your FULL time job. 
  2. You are a student-athlete but the athlete really comes first. 
  3. You are expected to pass all of your classes and maintain certain GPA, otherwise you can become ineligible to play and possibly lose your scholarship. 
  4. You practice 6 days a week ( 1 day off during the week- traveling counts as a day off). 
  5. Most of the practices are 3 Hours long
  6. Weight-room doesn't count as practice so that is an additional hour a day.
  7. Meetings/ Athletic training/Pre-game Meals/ Team Bonding Activities/ Volunteering/ Fundraising are mandatory and don't count as your training hours.
  8. Most of the traveling is Thursday-Sunday and you will miss classes and exams, that you will have to make up.
  9. Unless you are really sick or injured and considered “Unable to practice” by a medical professional- you are expected to be in practice/ game.
  10. If something hurts, take Aleve or two and an ice bath. 
  11. If you are injured you are still to be in practice and do your rehab. This is not a time off. 
  12. You do your studying whenever you get a chance: on the bus, on the airplane, at the airport, in hotel.
  13. On the game day, there is usually 1 hour pre game practice, watching tape/ team meetings -count that your day is taken completely. 
  14. If you have been up all night studying, nobody cares. You are expected to be at your practice/game at your very best.
  15. You must be on time (really 15 minutes before) anything. Tardy is not an option. 
  16. You will eat on to go most of your meals. 
  17. Your personal life comes very last. You have to leave it outside of the court. 
  18. You have study hall at least 6 hours per week.
  19. If you make it to the NCAA Tournament, you will compete and travel during your final exams week. Your athletic commitment will not change just because you have exams or 20 page paper due. Find a way. 
  20. Whether you are pre-med, engineering or history major, nobody cares. You still have to make good grades and pass your classes. 
  21. You are to make an appropriate personal sacrifices for the good of the team.

Collegiate Athletics is however worth the sacrifice: No student debt, and the time management skills that will help you for the rest of your life. It teaches you to balance responsibilities. It teaches you to prioritize in a very stressful situations. It teaches you to ditch the excuses.

One day, you will still have to meet job deadlines while you have crying babies at home, health issues, family responsibilities,financial issues, etc. No worries, you already been through that for 4 years and you'll do just fine. 

Trading Heels for Volleyball

Let me start this by saying that I am overwhelmed by support from my husband, family, co-workers, players’ parents, coaches and of course all of my girls. The decision has been tough and scary but with an immediate relief and enormous gratitude. It feels right. 

I've did it before my 30th Birthday, the timeline that I had set for myself. I've done what most of people including myself dream of all their lives, but never have courage to do it. Once again leaving safe and comfortable and following my heart: I left comfort of my home for new country and culture 11 years ago and here I am again. Leaving comfort and stability to pursuit my dreams and influence others. 

 I left my promising office career to do what I am put on this earth to do. I left advanced Degrees to do what I have done for over 20 years now. To fulfill my purpose that I have been given. To share my knowledge and passion. To serve community. To inspire and mentor. To breathe in confidence into people. To lead by example. To show that all things are possible. To follow my own words "Go for it".

I read these words yesterday written by sister of my late friend Dominic: “All of us are standing in a “yard” somewhere deciding whether or not  we are going to move. One-day death will come for each of us. We can live and love fully and boldly or we can remain paralyzed by fear—it’s just matter of price you want to pay “. In life there are no guarantees and there is always a tradeoff- you win some and you lose some. However, we can’t go forward in fear. I choose to go forward with heart full of love, passion and trust in what I do. I believe it will be ok, it already is. 

I think people tend to underestimate coaching. We value big titles and surely they have place and purpose. However, coaching/teaching has enormous impact on our society and planet in general. Guiding young people to make the right decisions, establishing their work ethic, teaching team work, commitment, accountability, punctuality; pushing through tough times, stepping out of the comfort zone. Those skills WILL yield better bosses, doctors, nurses, attorneys, moms, politicians, educators, co-workers, coaches…..better people. Coaching is IMPORTANT. It is more than just Volleyball. We all need coach.

In life we only have few opportunities to make major life changes. Recognize yours and GO for it. Trust that everything,everything(Absolutely everything)will be ok, (in case you are wondering).

"If you wait until the wind and the weather are just right, you Will never plant anything and never harvest anything". - Ecclesiastes 11:4